Key Takeaways
- Two months ago, Erin told us about how she readjusted to life after spending two years traveling the world. This month, continuing our reader story se
- What makes Dan’s story a little different is that he doesn’t permanently return —�?he comes home, works, then goes out and travels more. In this inter
- Hey Dan! Tell everyone about yourself. Hey everyone, I’m Dan! I’m English and my first trip was a month spent inter-railing around Europe in 1991. I w
Two months ago, Erin told us about how she readjusted to life after spending two years traveling the world. This month, continuing our reader story series, Dan shares his story about how he readjusts?to life back home after spending enormous amounts of time on the road.
What makes Dan’s story a little different is that he doesn’t permanently return —?he comes home, works, then goes out and travels more. In this interview, Dan shares his tips and advice for anyone looking to live a life of travel
Hey Dan! Tell everyone about yourself. Hey everyone, I’m Dan! I’m English and my first trip was a month spent inter-railing around Europe in 1991. I was 18. It didn’t actually go that well and I wasn’t hooked on travel until my trip to India in 1998.
There was something about being immersed in the culture of a developing nation that really fascinated me (that and the fact that I could survive on about 5 GBP a day)! That’s where my low-budget ethos was born and from then on I was a bona fide traveler.
Now, I move countries every few years with long overland trips, working in between. I currently live in Sydney, Australia, with my like-minded wife.
What inspires your trips? We were most recently traveling Southeast Asia. This particular leg was chosen because it was between Cape Town, where we had been living, and Sydney, our current residence.
After our last trip through the heart of Africa, we needed a more relaxing trip and we knew that Southeast Asia was going to be a lot more “fun” given that it’s a backpacker mecca.
Where did you go on your trip? We started in Bangkok and did a clockwise loop north through Laos, Vietnam, and back through Cambodia to Bangkok.
After that, we headed south down the Malay Peninsula, across to Indonesia and along the chain of Indonesian islands as far as Bali before flying back to Sydney.
That took five?months. We would have liked to continue east to East Timor or Papua New Guinea but we ran out of money.
Were there any scary parts to your trip? Probably the scariest parts of this trip were the drunken antics of the backpackers in Vang Vieng (Laos) and Ko Phangan (Thailand), several of whom died or disappeared during the respective Tubing and Full Moon Parties while we were there.
In terms of traditional “third?world scaremongering,” though, all the people were wonderful and we had no troubles at all. After living on a knife’s edge in Africa for three years, Southeast Asia was a breeze.
Did you have a plan for when you came back from your first trip? If so, what was it? The first time I went away was only a month around Europe, so it didn’t impact much on my home life, so that’s probably not a very interesting answer. My second trip was more major: a year in Australia when I finished university.
Before I left, I booked a place on a post-grad course intending to earn the fees during my year away. I slaved in a supermarket for six months, earning enough to support me for the next year, but then I went traveling and blew most of it. D’oh!
As far as practical plans went, I was just going to stay on a mate’s floor until I found a room in a shared house, and from there look for a part-time job. It all went as planned. It’s never taken me long to find a job. Despite the unemployment figures, if you really want a job, you’ll find one. My theory is that the sort of person who is willing to drop everything and travel long-term will have the same mindset and will rarely have trouble finding work.
What was the hardest part of coming home? Having to cook for ourselves again! No, we (my wife and I) move countries entirely so we have to organize somewhere to live, some work, collecting our worldly goods from the port, and storing them.
I’m a very practical person, so I don’t let emotions interfere with my rehabilitation into society. When the trip is over, it’s over, and it is time to get back to work. Sure, I miss the road, but I know I’ll be back, and besides, I like living in the city too, so there is plenty to look forward to at home.
On my first trip, I met a lovely young lady whom I traveled with for nearly two months, and I missed her enormously when I left. (Route for Less note: Check out this article on love on the road.)
To be honest, after returning from that first trip to Australia, I went through a period of sadness. Her letters, combined with my fabulous memories and new, unglamorous student existence, got me down for a while, but I soon pulled myself together. In all the trips I’ve done since, I’ve learned to cope better emotionally. Practice makes perfect, right?
Do you find it hard to adjust to “normal life” after being on the road so long? I’m pretty level-headed so I didn’t find it difficult, plus I’ve done it several times before. In fact, I love getting back into the city and catching up on the food, movies, and music that I’ve missed. Being away for so long means you can miss entire seasons, memes, and explosions in popular culture. A news event or trend that flared up and died then is referred to years later can
